grunt rant

i was blog-hopping, yes, i am a bunny online and i read quite a number of blogs, just too lazy to tag, like some of the people who read my blog. lol. i chanced upon Jesscy's blog and managed to find this quiz and i took it. :)


My Results:

Your view on yourself: You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for: You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship: You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love: You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.

Your views on education: Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you: You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success: You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of: You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.

Who is your true self: You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.


Hahaha. I don't agree on the education and the right job for me sections. Lol. I'm more laid-back and go with the flow when I have no aim, but I have an aim, so I'm working hard for that aim which is not a 9 - 5 kinda job.

Seriously, some thing has been in my head for a looooooooong time. I am getting pissed with people and duh, myself, whenever I see signs of characteristics of people that I am unhappy about. Firstly bitching, okay I am not a fan of it, usually I just laugh and I'll forget about whatever that was bitched due to poor memory. Okay, I never really actively take part in any bitching sessions, but my presence there is accounted for. before you guys start pointing fingers at me on why I am participating in such things and why I didn't stop them, hold your tongues. I DID. I gave them my views on it, how it hurts people and breaks friendship blah blah blah...

But its like 1 VS. 28649692649625698263 people. Anyway, I don't really care if they listened or not, in the end, yeah, bitching it's still there. To people out there who hate bitching, ask yourself if you did it before? Hold up! Before you even start pointing fingers at others bitching their asses off, aren't you doing the same too? Just in a different way. It's damn fucking annoying when I see this kinda thing happening. Whe you think all has come to an end, someone just has to bring it up and voila! Bitching sessions during tea break again.

Then again, if you think on a more positive side, bitching is for at the brink of dying of boredom and seriously nothing better to do kinda people, feel happy for yourself! At least you don't fall under these categories. :D Just see it as a form of social activity, perhaps you won't take it so badly. I think the thing that hurts most is when the protagonist in these sessions is you. Aiyah, just take it in and fart out loh! Lol. Just kidding, okay maybe you can listen and see what they bitch about make sense, ask yourself did you really do this. Then with no hatred and ill-breed feelings, ask yourself again, in a very neutral sight, who's right and who's wrong? If you're right, EXPLAIN, give them food for thought, like why you do these blah blah blah... If you're wrong, APOLOGISE, change for the better and MOVE ON WITH LIFE.

I think on most occasions, people bitch cos' they care. Lol. I know what a weird explanation. But try hearing out my point of view. If they don't care, will they even bitch? They will just not give a damn about you and treat you like you're invisible. However, they bitched! Yeah, that means they care, and have thought about you and your actions. Hahahhaa! Reasonable eh?

Another thing, people, can we be more straightforward with each other. In a nicer way, for me. Not everyone has to go through verbal abuse to know that other people are caring for them. I believe there are different methods catered for different types of people. So stop classifying everyone as the same as you. Oh yeah, when you are straightforward to someone, make sure you can accept the same from them too, if not it just isn't fair for others.

I'm not talking about anyone, just giving a little insight, to state my point.

Just wants the world to be a happier place and eat beancurd tarts everyday.




Okay. Lol. I love my garlic-armpit boyfriend very much. :D